Some parts of my son’s funeral are foggy to me and other sections are crystal clear. My son, David Glasser, was a Phoenix Police Officer who was killed in the line of duty on May 18, 2016. I will never forget the feeling I had sitting in the front row of the huge church auditorium packed to the rafters with family, friends and police officers and their wives. As I sat there with thousands of people sitting behind me, I felt huge waves of grief rolling over the crowd. A massive amount of emotion just kept coming, over and over, moving over the sea of blue.
That was the first time I realized what a blow Davey’s death was to our Blue family and to the whole city of Phoenix.
This was much bigger than family and friends and people who knew him. This was the metropolitan city of Phoenix feeling his loss. This was my whole big blue family across the nation grieving. I had never experienced that monumental amount of serious grief and pain.
Unbelievable.
The speakers at Davey’s funeral were awesome and I appreciated everything that was shared.
I did not expect to be surprised by a few things that people said. Davey and I were close and I had spent a ton of time with him. As his mother, I thought I knew all about him. But I learned two significant things about Davey that day.
One of them is Davey’s Legacy of Love – he made a big deal out of saying ‘love you’ to his squad members before he left on a call and he would stand there, waiting for them to say it back to him. I knew Davey always ‘Love you’ to me, I just didn’t know that it was the last thing that he said to everyone that he cared about in his life. I didn’t know that he had his whole squad of tough police officers saying it to each other before they left on a call. I also didn’t know at the time of his funeral how Davey’s legacy of love was going to totally change the journey we have been on since that day. Love is the answer. God has infused love with a magic that provides strength and comfort in the worst situations. I never experienced that until Davey was killed.
The other thing I wasn’t expecting to hear was how many of the speakers talked about Davey sharing his faith. I shouldn’t be surprised because he had a very strong faith in God. I just never heard him sharing his faith with other people so I didn’t realize he talked about God as much as he did. Now I understand that, if he cared about you and he wasn’t sure you believed in Jesus, he would bring it up….often. In fact, he didn’t let the subject die, he kept talking about it. He would challenge his friend’s beliefs and unbelief.
How awesome! It’s just another reason why I’m proud of the man Davey was. Davey accepted Jesus as his Savior as a child and continued to grow in his faith through the rest of his life. In this picture, Davey and my husband, Dave, are at a Promise Keeper’s Christian Men’s Rally. Promise Keepers taught men all about living a life of integrity and keeping their promises. Davey learned that lesson very well – those of you who knew him already were aware of that.
God provided a great church family for us which was the village that helped grow Davey’s faith. Davey went to church camp and mission trips every year – living out his faith and having a great time doing it. This picture is of one of the groups of kids that went on a church mission trip when Davey was in high school. He is in the back row next to Jay Van Gelder who spoke at his funeral. And Kristen, his future wife, is in the front row. At this time, they weren’t dating – just friends. We had no idea that they would marry not too many years after this picture was taken.
Davey sets a good role model for those of us who believe. We need to share our faith and what we know to be true – and we need to keep sharing it.
And do it all with love.
Just like Davey did.
Miss you, Davey.
Love you.
My Family Bleeds Blue 